This week, Pelumi discusses what inner child work is, the traumatic experience that occurred, the cause, and how it affects teenagers' lives through dependency, loss of identity, and a desire for self-validation, as well as approaches to healing inner chi
Episode Show notes:
Inner child work introduces teenagers to deal with certain issues that manifest themselves when they are older (0:24), the emotional mind develops before the logical mind (1:59), so people who have inner child wounds suffer a traumatic experience(2:25), from a critical window (2:28). Although, it's not all about how bad the experiences were but about how you dealt with them (3:10). This traumatic experience is caused by molestation, low self-esteem (3:24) and it affects your life through codependency which makes you lose your self of identity (4:10), having commitment issues (7:15), crave a sense of validation (7:56), which sabotage relationships(8:30). Children need parents who will instill discipline on them from addictive abuse (12:06), which is as a result of traumatic experiences (13:40). Healing your inner child begins from identification (15:55).